NOW Life Chart 02/09/2000 by John Ver Voorn
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Do Something Different to get Different Results!
80%/20%
80% of Results comes from 20% of the effort.
A small Change in the Right area will multiply.
Any Change in the wrong area will Divide or negate efforts.
Small Changes over a period of Time
CANI - Constant And NeverEnding Improvment
1% Improvment every day will give you a 100% improvement in about 3 months.
Lifelong Leaning is commiting yourself to the Learning Process for your entire Life. READ!

BALANCE DOESN'T MEAN EQUAL
Gain Pleasure / Avoid Pain
Already Enough / Get More
Future / Past
Work / Play
Listen / Talk
Strategy Step 1 Step 2 Step 3
KISS Keep It Short & Simple
VCR (Mine!!) Vision (Clean, Clear-Cut, Current) Create Recreate
One-Minute Roles / Goals Praisings Repremands
Raving Fans Decide what you want Discover what the Customer wants Deliver Plus One -
Deliver the Vision + 1%
7 Habits of Highly Effective People / Families 1, Be Proactive
2, Begin with the End in Mind
3, Put First things First
4, Think Win-Win
5, Seek First to
Understand, Then to be
Understood
6, Synergize
7, Sharpening the Saw
Gung Ho! Worthwhile Work In Control of Achieving the Goal Cheering Each Other On
MOTIVATION
COMUNICATE
MANAGE TIME
Motivation goes back to MOTIVE and WHY are you doing something.
TRY IT! - Do it for 15 minutes.
Just DO IT! - It will get easier each time.
Look to the Future! How will things be when it's done.
Watch your Watch - Eye Contact & Equal time Talking and Listening.
Always avoid Always & Never.
Respond with at least 2 statments.
Talk Asertively.
ASK Open-Ended Questions.
ASK One-Finger Questions. (What is one...?)
Mirror Back instead of offering advice.
A Time & Place for everything & everything in it's Time & Place.
Manage Moments - What is the best use of my time right now. What do I Need Or Want to do.
First Things First - Put the Big rocks in First.
Proactive Don't Distort PERFORM Goals should be SMART
Gap between stimulis and responce.
Don't just React!
Keep the End result you wish to achieve in mind.
Think before you act.
1, All or Nothing
2, Overgeneralization
3, Mental Filter
4, Magnification or Min.
5, Disqualify the Positive
6, Jumping to Conclusions
7, Emotional Reasoning
8, Should / Must
9, Labeling & Mislabeling
10, Personalization
Purpose
Empowerment
Relationships & Comunication
Flexibility
Optimal Performance or Productivity
Recognition & Appreciation
Morale
Specific
Measurable
Attainable
Relevant
Trackable

Long-Term, Short-Term, Daily and Next Step Goals.
FOUNDATION: A Time and a Place for Everything & Everthing in it's Time And Place!
FOUNDATION: VALUES (Caring, Respect, Responsibility, Honesty, Faithfulness, etc.)


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